Probably this could help you to answer "Whys" in your relationship, friendship, and family
Grab a sit and take your time to do this.
Go to this Love Language Test
find what is your love language or your children
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.